Seeing Halloween through the eyes of your neighbors

What if Christians saw Halloween though the eyes of their neighbors? Jeff Vanderstelt has written a nice post about how to respond to Haloween with a missionary mindset. This is great stuff – thanks Jeff!

Posted Oct 27 by Jeff Vanderstelt

This coming Monday offers a great opportunity for many to engage in new relationships with those around us or to revisit some old relationships with new missional intentionality. Regardless of what you think of the holiday and it’s roots, the culture we have been sent by Jesus to reach is going to celebrate Halloween this Monday. We all have in front of us a wide open door for missionary engagement in our neighborhoods. I want to encourage you not to miss out on the opportunity.
If you are looking to be more intentionally engaged this year, I want to present you with a few ideas for how you can more effectively walk through the open door that Halloween presents to us as Jesus’ missionaries.

BE HOSPITABLE…Don’t just give out candy
Give out the best Candy. Please, don’t give out tracks or toothbrushes or pennies…kids are looking for the master loot of candy. Put yourself in their shoes.
Think of the Parents. Consider having some Hot Apple Cider and pumpkin bread or muffins out for the parents who are bringing their little kiddos around the block. Make your entry-way inviting so they want to come closer and hang for a bit if possible.

BE PRESENT…Don’t hide out all night.
Come out to the door or hang out on the porch and if they stop to have some cider, get to know their names and where they live in the neighborhood.

Be Encouraging.
Tell the kids you love their costumes and to have a great night. Practice building others up with words.

If you’re really into it, you may want to throw a pre-Trick or Treating party. Provide dinner and drinks. Then, send the dads out trick or treating with the kids while the moms continue hanging with some hot apple cider, coffee or tea. Then reconvene with the parents and kids together to examine all of the loot (kids love to show their parents and other kids the loot).

Learn the Stories.
If you are out T or Ting with the kiddos or staying back with the other parents, ask questions…get to know their stories. Pay attention to their hearts and their felt needs. Look for opportunities to serve them later.

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About chris breuninger

I love life, my family, and Jesus. I enjoy live music, rigorous exercise, thoughtful movies, and strong coffee. I study scripture, wine, and people. I get frustrated with narrow minds, Christian stereotypes, and gardening. My vocation is pastor, but I’m hesitant to admit that, and I’m happy when people are surprised by that.
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3 Responses to Seeing Halloween through the eyes of your neighbors

  1. soraya ermesilia says:

    a encouraging blog and post thanks for sharing! looking for visiting more..loves from holland shalom!

  2. Mayre says:

    Great suggestions. Wish I had them BEFORE Halloween so that I could have thought to provide hospitality and treats to the parents who came with their kids.

  3. Mayre says:

    and what I forgot to add is that I hope I remember these suggestions so I can try them NEXT year.

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